stonewallpark
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You are so right that is what it is about. Be happy ,I LOVE SEX thats why I married a woman 27 years old. Of course I could not keep up with her so we got a deal. I bought a 5 gal bucket of little blue pills to help me out.She takes good care of me and keeps her maid working.I treat her very good but I don't wash dishes,clothes,clean house,SO she has her maid for that leave me out.She will be flying to Vegas tonight to shop,play blackjack and slots.She will be back sunday in time for The CHURCH OF WHATS HAPPENING NOW service. I love that woman.Remember what happens in Vegas stays in VEGAS.
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buffcajun
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debberleeme
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Maybe if the men would recognize that once women have the marriage, kids and picket fence, it's a whole lot more work than one person can handle. Biggest turn on to a married woman? A guy who has vacuumed the house, made dinner and cleaned the kitchen. That's the guy who is getting laid (at least in my house).
 
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gargayle
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I disagree. I think when women have all their eggs then it might be true. Once that whole "gotta have kids, gotta get married, gotta have the house and picket fence" vibe goes away I don't think it's on their radar, except to pacify the men in their lives.
tayker - I adore you, but I got to say you are so wrong on this one (at least in my case). If anything, I am more excited and wanting of sex than any other time in my life. The "pressure" so to speak is off. I feel free. I feel desired. I am more comfortable with myself than I ever was. That is very liberating.
Oh, and I find men much more exciting and interesting than I ever have too. Gone is that whole "us vs. them" attitude.
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povphile
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I have dated older women all my life with VERY few exceptions. I discovered when I was much younger that women in their 30s had one HELL of a libido. AS I grew older I discovered that women in their 40s knew what they wanted and didn't mind telling you about it. I have found that older women don't play games like the younger ones do and they know how to show their appreciation. While I have had only one partner for the last 15.5 years, I have seen changes in our intimate lives. I wont go into detail but to say that our intimate lives are better and better all the time is an understatement.
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tayker
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There will be exceptions to everything, like how can some people with high cholesterol never have heart disease issues? That being said, I do believe older women want it less due to hormonal issues.
POV's comment supports my point about scripting. I know what I like too, but it gets boring doing the same thing all the time. Plus, I didn't like older women telling me when sex will be, i.e on said date, after dinner. There are some things that I'd rather leave off my calendar, or plan like an office party.
I found that living by the motto "if it happens it happens, and if it doesn't then at least I got out of the house and spent time with a friend" made life exciting and fun - which was more often with younger women.
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soldbyme
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I disagree. I think when women have all their eggs then it might be true. Once that whole "gotta have kids, gotta get married, gotta have the house and picket fence" vibe goes away I don't think it's on their radar, except to pacify the men in their lives.
tayker - I adore you, but I got to say you are so wrong on this one (at least in my case). If anything, I am more excited and wanting of sex than any other time in my life. The "pressure" so to speak is off. I feel free. I feel desired. I am more comfortable with myself than I ever was. That is very liberating.
Oh, and I find men much more exciting and interesting than I ever have too. Gone is that whole "us vs. them" attitude.
Wait until your children move out on their own. Talk about liberating. It's wonderful! You're on an extended second honeymoon vacation 
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Maxsmom64
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I disagree. I think when women have all their eggs then it might be true. Once that whole "gotta have kids, gotta get married, gotta have the house and picket fence" vibe goes away I don't think it's on their radar, except to pacify the men in their lives.
tayker - I adore you, but I got to say you are so wrong on this one (at least in my case). If anything, I am more excited and wanting of sex than any other time in my life. The "pressure" so to speak is off. I feel free. I feel desired. I am more comfortable with myself than I ever was. That is very liberating.
Oh, and I find men much more exciting and interesting than I ever have too. Gone is that whole "us vs. them" attitude.
I totally agree with you Gayle! But you said it much better than I did!
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tayker
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Her kids still live with her, BTW. Just sayin'...
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gargayle
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There will be exceptions to everything, like how can some people with high cholesterol never have heart disease issues? That being said, I do believe older women want it less due to hormonal issues.
POV's comment supports my point about scripting. I know what I like too, but it gets boring doing the same thing all the time. Plus, I didn't like older women telling me when sex will be, i.e on said date, after dinner. There are some things that I'd rather leave off my calendar, or plan like an office party.
I found that living by the motto "if it happens it happens, and if it doesn't then at least I got out of the house and spent time with a friend" made life exciting and fun - which was more often with younger women.
There is no doubt in my mind that I am the exception to the rule. I know this. I like this. I don't let age dictate who and what I am. That said, I am also neither domineering nor instructive. I like spontaneity. I like what I like, but I am open to new and exciting as well. How would one know what one likes or dislikes if one is not open to the new and exciting? It's what keeps things interesting. Boring is just that; boring.
Each one has their own preference. For you it is a young woman, to POV an older one. It's all in what and how you enjoy your sex and thank goodness we all enjoy what we do.
I can't speak for others here. I can only speak for myself.
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1spunkygal
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Why am i always @ work when the interesting stuff is going on ? ...that !@#$% job has gotten in my way too may times.
Anyhoo in short i agree with Gayle i don't let age dictate what im "suppose to" being doing or feeling. There are days i feel 25 other times not so much.Just cause women are older doesn't mean we don't like to have fun in the bedroom, be spontaneous or enjoy it just as much as a man would. To each his/her own, I know younger women that are already "too tired".
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Tiger
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Why am i always @ work when the interesting stuff is going on ? ...that !@#$% job has gotten in my way too may times.
Quit
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1spunkygal
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Loc: Bedrock
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Direct deposit $2500.00 in my acct every month & i will
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Tiger
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Okay! But........I control how it's spent.
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1spunkygal
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Hawkrider
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Maybe intimacy is all ritual and scripted the older you get. All I know is that women in their late 30's and older tend to be boring and uninterested...
I'm thinking and really hoping that you are married to a younger woman.
OR... Your wife never reads Fredtalk.
Either way, I will say that with my 33rd anniversay coming up this month, that yeah there are peaks and valleys in relationships. Not just in the sex but in all aspects. You just need to be aware of each other's needs and adjust.
I don't want to gross anyone out with TMI (my kids think any information is TMI), but after a few years it is not going to be that "I'm going to explode if I can't have you right now" feeling like in the beginning but that doesn't mean it can't be enjoyable and even exciting.
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tayker
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I'm thinking and really hoping that you are married to a younger woman.
I am.
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OR... Your wife never reads Fredtalk.
Whether she does/doesn't, she respects my opinion.
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Either way, I will say that with my 33rd anniversay coming up this month, that yeah there are peaks and valleys in relationships. Not just in the sex but in all aspects. You just need to be aware of each other's needs and adjust.
I don't want to gross anyone out with TMI (my kids think any information is TMI), but after a few years it is not going to be that "I'm going to explode if I can't have you right now" feeling like in the beginning but that doesn't mean it can't be enjoyable and even exciting.
OK, the examples of "exciting" mentioned so far are simple easy things. Exciting to me isn't washing dishes, mowing the lawn, or scheduling time when the kids are away. An exciting example, to me, is coming home with the lights out and candles lit, etc, something spontaneous like getting in the car and seeing where we go and finding a nice out-of-the-way spot to stay and be romantic, or having a typical everyday kiss blossom into something unexpected. Those are just a few examples.
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